Barbara Walters Quotations

I'm a wonderful editor. That's what I do best. I know exactly what I want. If I have to decide whether to wear the red dress or the blue dress or what should I have said, I am constantly changing my mind.

I find very often people like to confront rumors. It depends on how much they trust you. And you have to have a line between what is tasteful and what isn't.

Motherhood is tough. If you just want a wonderful little creature to love, you can get a puppy.

Deep breaths are very helpful at shallow parties.

Success can make you go one of two ways. It can make you a prima donna - or it can smooth the edges, take away the insecurities, let the nice things come out.

When you're interviewing someone, you're in control. When you're being interviewed, you think you're in control, but you're not.

But for Muslims, everything that they don't have on earth is what they get in heaven. They can drink, they can have sex. All of the forbidden pleasures on earth, you can have in paradise.

It would be nice to feel that we are a better world, a world of more compassion and a world of more humanity, and to believe in the basic goodness of man.

First of all, the Jewish religion has a great deal in common with the Christian religion because, as Rabbi Gillman points out in the show, Christianity is based on Judaism. Christ was Jewish.

To not sing with an orchestra, to not be able to communicate through my voice, which I've done all my life, and not to be able to phrase lyrics and give people that kind of joy, I think I would be totally devastated.

Most attractive males talk to most attractive women as if they were Rotarians comparing sales percentages in Des Moines.

Show me someone who never gossips, and I will show you someone who is not interested in people.

And I really do believe that the most important thing is the way you live your life on earth. But I think it's enormously comforting to believe that you're going to see your loved ones.

I can get a better grasp of what is going on in the world from one good Washington dinner party than from all the background information NBC piles on my desk.

Parents of young children should realize that few people, and maybe no one, will find their children as enchanting as they do.

To feel valued, to know, even if only once in a while, that you can do a job well is an absolutely marvelous feeling.

Before we had airplanes and astronauts, we really thought that there was an actual place beyond the clouds, somewhere over the rainbow. There was an actual place, and we could go above the clouds and find it.there.

I regret not having more children. I would have loved to have had a bigger family.

If the interview was done in the studio, Frank McGee would automatically do it. But if I went out and got it, then the interview was mine. So I was considered a pushy cookie, because I would get the interview.

Most of us have trouble juggling. The woman who says she doesn't is someone whom I admire but have never met.

The world may be full of fourth-rate writers but it's also full of fourth-rate readers.

I found it interesting that as people become more technically oriented all over the world, at the same time people are becoming increasingly spiritual. The success of the Da Vinci code - even though it was a great yawn - also showed people's interest in religion.

I was the kind nobody thought could make it. I had a funny Boston accent. I couldn't pronounce my R's. I wasn't a beauty.

The sports page records people's accomplishments, the front page usually records nothing, but man's failures.

All of the religions - with the exception of Tibetan Buddhism, which doesn't believe in a heaven - teach that heaven is a better place. At the end of the program, I say that heaven is a place where you are happy. All of the religions have that in common.

Although I myself don't go to church or synagogue, I do, whether it's superstition or whatever, pray every time I get on a plane. I just automatically do it. I say the same thing every time.

Wait for those unguarded moments. Relax the mood and, like the child dropping off to sleep, the subject often reveals his truest self.

A man cannot be made comfortable without his own approval.

Because there are so many shows on and because I've been so hands-on - I've had a piece on almost every single week - I don't know how to cut back on that. You really can't.

A great many people think that polysyllables are a sign of intelligence.

I have affected the way women are regarded, and that's important to me.

If it's a woman, it's caustic; if it's a man, it's authoritative.

I also found that for myself, since I've had no religious education, it was so interesting to see the different versions of heaven and what life on earth means.

I don't know about you, but I can never get enough David Letterman.

No one could ad lib like Peter. You would think that it was all scripted, he was so poetic, but it wasn't.

...We believe that the damage to other countries (from high oil prices) is tremendous and we don't believe prices should be at this level,

We're still following some leads. With every lead we get, we're hoping it turns over another new lead.

We were amazed when she said yes and we're thrilled to have her.

A woman can do anything. She can be traditionally feminine and that's all right; she can work, she can stay at home; she can be aggressive; she can be passive; she can be any way she wants with a man. But whenever there are the kinds of choices there are today, unless you have some solid base, life can be frightening.

A man cannot be comfortable [or cannot be made comfortable] without his own approval.

A great many people think that polysyllables are a sign of intelligence and refinement so they think they will impress others with their command of obscure words.

Show me someone who never gossips, and I'll show you someone who isn't interested in people.

It's a fact that it is much more comfortable to be in the position of the person who has been offended than to be the unfortunate cause of it.

Just do your job. Get in early. Stay late, and don’t complain. Fight the big fights.

If you were a tree, what kind would you be?

Don't confuse being stimulating with being blunt.

The news media in general are liberals.

I didn't have a very religious family.

politics ... is the hottest, most dangerous subject in the land. It's not only a conversation-wrecker, it's a friendship-wrecker, a family-wrecker, a job-wrecker, a future-wrecker.

The way you dress is the billboard that tells perceptive people how you feel about yourself.

Small children do not belong at an adult party, and especially should not be used like trained midgets to help serve martinis.

I happen to disagree with the well-entrenched theory that the art of conversation is merely the art of being a good listener. Such advice invites people to be cynical with one another and full of fake; when a conversation becomes a monologue, poked along with tiny cattle-prod questions, it isn't a conversation any more.

[On being indecisive and changeable:] On my gravestone I want inscribed: 'On the other hand, maybe I should have lived.

Large cocktail parties are an infamous technique for ridding yourself of social obligations to people you usually don't know well or like much, which is such an unpromising beginning that I've rarely known one that recovered and turned into a great party.

A good laugh makes any interview, or any conversation, so much better.

For Castro, freedom starts with education. And if literacy alone were the yardstick, Cuba would rank as one of the freest nations on Earth. The literacy rate is 96 percent.

A conversation isn't a competition.

Celebrities used to be found in clusters, like oysters - and with much the same defensive mechanisms.

Mr. President, Mrs. Obama. There is a photograph of you [hugging] that went viral, became the most shared photograph in the history of Twitter. How do you keep the fire going?

If it's a woman it's caustic, if it's a man it's authority, If it's a woman it's too pushy, if it's a man it's aggressive in the best sense of the word.

[President Obama] made so many promises. We thought that he was going to be -- I shouldn't say this at Christmastime -- but the next messiah.

I didn't get ahead by sleeping with people. Girls, take heart!

Every genius I have met could be classified as crazy by most people. They possess the highest level of sanity that us people find difficult to understand and accept.

Après ski is my favorite sport.

A Hot Fudge Sundae and a trashy novel is my idea of heaven.

I think most working relationships could benefit by excluding personal matters from the office chatter.

Don't let the bastards get you down,

Most old people ... are disheartened to be living in the ailing house of their bodies, to be limited physically and economically, to feel an encumbrance to others - guests who didn't have the good manners to leave when the party was over.

when your child is in trouble, the first thing you do is blame yourself.

People sinking into self-pity and depression are dreary, but they can't get out of it by themselves. So every now and then, just sit there and listen, and listen, and listen. You're paying your membership dues in the human race.

The aging process seems to strike first at the mechanism which warns that we have been talking too much and the listener is growing restless. The signal isn't perfect at any age - drink, for instance, throws it right out of kilter - but it is almost non-existent in old people.

Homogeneity is much to be admired - in milk, for instance - but not for parties.

The origin of a modern party is anthropological: humans meet and share food to lower hostility between them and indicate friendship.

Being a parent is tough. If you just want a wonderful little creature to love, you can get a puppy

This is what I tell, especially young women, fight the big fights. Don't fight the little fight... Be the first one in, be the last one out. Do your homework, choose your battles. Don't whine, and don't be the one who complains about everything. Fight the big fight.

The news media in general are liberal. If you want to be a reporter, you are going to see poverty and misery, and you have to be involved in the human condition.

New York is a galaxy of adventure at once elegant, exciting and bizarre. It's a city that moves so fast, it takes energy just to stand still.

Work harder than everybody. You're not going to get it by whining, and you're not going to get it by shouting, and you're not going to get it by quitting. You're going to get it by being there.

A job is not a career. I think I started out with a job. It turned into a career and changed my life.

Life sometimes brings enormous difficulties and challenges that seem just too hard to bear. But bear them you can, and bear them you will, and your life can have a purpose.

To excel is to reach your own highest dream. But you must also help others, where and when you can, to reach theirs. Personal gain is empty if you do not feel you have positively touched another's life.

The hardest thing you will ever do is trust yourself.

Children are God's way of punishing us for having sex.

Don't worry about finding your bliss right now. Not even our President knew what his bliss was, nor did I. One of these days to your own surprise, your bliss will find you. But no matter what you do, participate, be there, full force, full heart, full steam ahead.

We were concerned to hear that Ms. Carey would be unable to do the interview at this time, and we wish her well,

Since then, every woman on morning programs has been a co-host, and more power to them,

Of course, I'm innocent. Of course, I'm innocent,

No one could ad lib like Peter. ... You would think that it was all scripted, he was so poetic, but it wasn't.

No one could ad lib like Peter. Sometimes he drove me crazy because he knew so many details,

I found talking to the young failed suicide bomber the most unsettling and depressing - that there could be that much hatred and ignorance.

I found Monica warm and intelligent and very open. I told her, 'You're very alive.' And she said, 'Maybe that was the appeal (to the president).'

I admire the way he lives his life,

I think this is one of the most important pieces that I've ever done. I hope it will be inspirational and to some degree educational. I hate to say that because I don't want it to sound like Comparative Religion 101.

I think every agent in America is calling.

I would have tried to tell her that this was a relationship that had no future. But have you ever tried to stop a daughter when she is in love from doing anything? It's very hard.

Well, it is a little different showing up at 4:30, 5 in the morning.

Well, it is a bit different arriving at 4:30 in the morning.

What I feel more and more is how important it is to live your life in a better way, and not to worry about it. What happens will happen.

We have been increasing patrols in the areas of the stations and just trying to be visible, ... If anybody gets the idea, we would be deployed rapidly behind them.

We would miss Meredith terribly, but I would understand if she decided to pursue this new and challenging opportunity. 'The View' is a very strong franchise and if Meredith did decide to leave, 'The View' would, of course, continue.