For my own family, we lived out in the country and we'd go out in the yard with the telescope. I'd point out the stars and the planets.
Stars are almost always people that want to make up for their own weaknesses by being loved by the public and I'm no exception to that.
I left school at 17 and was a star by the time I was 18 - in certain parts of the world anyway.
With pop stars or film stars, we become the object of people's self-definition, as well as the object of sexual definition.
There is no such thing as a reluctant star.