Children aren't fooled. They know we give time to the things we love.
Children are curious and are risk takers. They have lots of courage. They venture out into a world that is immense and dangerous. A child initially trusts life and the processes of life.
Children need parents who model self-discipline rather than preach it. They learn from what their parents are actually willing to do; not from what they say they do.
I believe that this neglected, wounded, inner child of the past is the major source of human misery.
Children are natural Zen masters; their world is brand new in each and every moment.