You must begin to define yourself. You must begin to define your Black heritage.
Don't let anyone try to tell you who you are. Define yourself.
It's in the struggle itself that you define yourself.
Don't let anyone define you. You define yourself.
If you don’t define yourself for yourself then you will be crushed into other's fantasies of you and eaten alive
Whether it’s your taste in clothing, your needs in a relationship, or what you do for a living—don’t let anyone else be at the controls. Define yourself.
Take the time to define yourself and define your value. If you're having a hard time doing that, ask yourself: What is something I would say to someone I love?
Don't let others define you. Define yourself.
Never define yourself in terms of how you are negatively affected by others.
Be willing to redefine yourself every day.