It doesn't happen all at once. You become. It takes a long time.
The real you is on the side of God against the false self
The more boundless your vision, the more real you are.
Your personality - the real you inside - was the price of beauty.
The more real you get, the more unreal everything else is.
The more real you get, the more unreal things get.
Be yourself and the right people will love you.