God just has a way of working things out the way he wants to and you have no say in that.
The way I dress depends on how I feel. I never have to psych myself up. Usually it just feels like it works.
My way probably wont work for most people but the more I got naked the more comfortable I felt.
You have to just accept your body. You may not love it all the way, but you just have to be comfortable with it, comfortable with knowing that that's your body.
I always keep my guard up with guys and I guess that can get in the way sometimes. I can make them go through hell.