You've got to get to the stage in life where going for it is more important than winning or losing.
In America you're conditioned to regard everything as a contest. You have to make the Ten Best Dressed List, win this, win that. It drives me nuts sometimes. Who cares, for Christ's sake?
It is not just the more talented player who wins. Some players may try a little harder.
Every time you win, it diminishes the fear a little bit. You never really cancel the fear of losing; you keep challenging it.
Regardless of how you feel inside, always try to look like a winner.
Life is like a tennis game. You can't win without serving.