Whats not to love is hardly a reason to love. And the catch of your life is not the same thing as the love of your life. Be careful of that subtle but rather crucial distinction.
You can't quantify love, and if you try, you can end up focusing on misleading factors. Stuff that really has more to do with personality-the fact that some people are simply more expressive or emotional or needy in a relationship. But beyond such smokescreens, the answer is there. Love is seldom-almost never-an even proposition.
Love is seldom—almost never—an even proposition. Someone always loves more.
True love is supposed to make you into a better person-uplift you.
...love is the sum of our choices, the strength of our commitments, the ties that bind us together.