You can respect a person without necessarily liking that individual.
It has to be a team concept. It isn't an individual game.
One of the greatest motivating factors is the pat on the back, although with some individuals, you have to make the pat a little lower or a little harder.
When you choose to become part of a team, you cease to exist as an individual.
Leadership is the ability to get individuals to work together for the common good and the best possible results while at the same time letting them know they did it themselves.