I feel like I've got this anti-marriage thing, but it's less that and more I'm overthinking it to get it right.
You've never lived what you are thinking, and that isn't good. Only the ideas we actually live are of any value.
The sensible part of me wanted to dissect my emotions, overthinking and overcomplicating my reaction to Jev.
Overthinking is often a product of underdoing.
He never complicates a desire by overthinking it, unlike Mirabelle, who spins a cocoon around an idea until it is immobile.
You have to try your hardest to be at the top of your game and improve every joke you can until the last possible second, and then you have to let it go.