You can always have success if you want it badly enough. Remember though, that success like anything worthwhile has a price tag.
Every circumstance in my life is my fault and my responsability. To accept this as a fact is to take the guiding force of my life away from the influence of others and give that power back to myself.
People who say 'I'm not a pessimist, I'm a realist' are actually just negative people who think they are always right.
Happiness must come first! only then can you have the partner of your dreams