Sherry Argov Quotations

The nice girl thinks she's giving up something to get something better in return. She gives up control over her own life. When the time comes for her to get what she expected, she winds up disappointed. In addition to being empty-handed, she's depleted.

Men secretly respect a woman who is strong, has confidence and has dreams of her own. There's nothing more attractive to a man than a woman who has dignity and pride in who she is.

There is a fundamental difference between men and women - women need romance, men need intrigue.

If you've ever noticed, beauty pageants are a lot like county fairs. The farmers show the cows the same way. They walk their prized Jersey cow across a stage in front of an audience with judges, and maybe the cow even twirls around a couple of times. Then the winning cow gets a satin ribbon draped over it, which has the title and the year on it.

Everybody has fallen down or been disappointed in love. Where you truly shine is when you get back up. Use it as a learning experience and believe in all of the possibilities.

Bending over backwards does not bring you the love and attention you crave, but having your own life, your own goals and a backbone will.

The nice girl meets a guy and acts like she joined a cult. In the beginning, a guy might ask her what she likes. The nice girl makes the mistake of shrugging her shoulders and saying: 'I like anything you like.'

When a man meets a woman who seems too perfect, too sweet, or too agreeable, he tends to become bored very quickly.

If you're 30 years old, you have your whole life ahead of you.

Men tend to fall in love when they feel like they are cherished or revered as the 'man' in the relationship.

When a man sees you are happy with him but you can be just as happy having nothing to do with him, that’s when he won’t want to leave your side. When you are happy, you are sexy.

Whenever you are too worried about someone else's approval, that person loses respect for you.

Standing up for yourself doesn't always involve verbal confrontation. Sometimes it's about not wasting energy on people who are negative.

When a nice girl overcompensates, her behavior says, “What I have to offer isn’t enough, and who I am isn’t enough.

The nice girl makes the mistake of being available all the time.

Anything a person chases in life runs away.

Relationship Principle 3 He doesn't marry a woman who is perfect. He marries the woman who is interesting.

Throughout life, people will try to shake your faith in yourself. When this happens, remind yourself that the only way they can succeed is if you allow it. When you walk down the street of life, always hold your head high and keep walking. Don't ever let anyone shake your faith in yourself, because that's really all that you have.

when something is right, it will feel easier and much more effortless

Whether it’s your taste in clothing, your needs in a relationship, or what you do for a living—don’t let anyone else be at the controls. Define yourself.

A beautiful woman can make herself look ugly in the eyes of a man if she is very insecure.

One man’s “ugly” is another man’s “beautiful.

As soon as a manhas his guard up. he will not fall in love or get attached the only way he'll get attached is if you lower his guard first.

Men are selfish and don't think about anything else but them self." pg. 45

Women tend to love men in their presence, while men tend to love women in their absence.

When it comes to believing in yourself, put your eye on the mark and don’t blink. If you have a goal, a dream, or an aspiration…believe in yourself while you are on the way to your destination, and you will have already arrived.

It isn’t about looks; gorgeous women get dumped every day.

And remember, it's always her fault. That's your story and you're sticking to it.

It's that a bit of irreverence is necessary to have any self-esteem at all. Not irreverence for people, but rather, for what other people think.

With a woman he's crazy about, he'll put in all the overtime in the world. He'll be doing things for you, he'll be considerate, he'll want to please you, he'll try to cheer you up if you are down, and he will enjoy every moment because you are the person he values most.

Once you start laughing, you start healing.

When you live life with him or without him, that is when he will accept and value you for who you are.

Don't believe what anyone tells you about yourself.

If someone else doesn't like your confidence, that's their problem. Why? You always come before they do, that's why.

You always want what you can’t have.

You can get away with saying much more with humor than you can with a straight face

If you allow your rhythm to be interrupted, you'll create a void. Then to replace what you give up, you'll start to expect and need more from your partner.

For a woman the objective is often a committed relationship also known as the destination. For a men roadtrip on the way to the destination is often the more fun.

He must feel that you choose to be with him, not that you need to be with him.

Men don't respond to words. What they respond to is "no contact".

If a man isn't being nice when you're out, all you have to do is remain polite and then go home early.

Relationship Principle 6 Men see how you dress, and then make assumptions about your relationship potential.

Don't ever let anyone shake your faith in yourself, because that's really all that you have.

Before sex, a man isn't thinking clearly and a woman is thinking clearly. After sex, it reverses. The man is thinking clearly and a woman isn't.

Relationship Principle 10 You can tell how much someone respects you by how much he respects your opinion. If he doesn't respect your opinion, he won't respect you.

When you nag, you become the problem, an he deals with it by turning you out, but when you dont nag, he deals with the problem.

Intelligent women make the mistake of assuming that if they hold a higher degree, they can hold their own in a political debate, and they have a good understanding of mid-caps

He should accept me as I am!” says the woman who is too nice. Accept you? Oh no, sister. Slap yourself. He should want you madly. Acceptance has nothing to do with it. He accepts a doormat. But he desires his dreamgirl.

Because of his hormones, he only has three emotions: crabby, hungry, horny.

If she has six good points and you have one semigood little point, place all of the emphasis on your one semigood little point.

It is your attitude about yourself that a man will adopt.

There's nothing more prized to a man than something he had to wait for, work for, or strugle a little bit to get.

Relationship Principle 11 It is better to be disliked for being who you are than to be loved for who you are not.

When a man takes a woman for granted, he still looks for reassurance that she is still right there.

Men are intrigued by anything they do not completly control.

When a woman acts as though she’s capable of everything, she gets stuck doing everything.

Most women are starving to receive something from a man that they need to give to themselves

Agree with everything, explain nothing, then do what is best for you.

Let's replace "Do unto others as you would have others do unto you" with "Do unto others, after they show you they are worthy.

Until he gives you a reason not to trust him, behave as though you trust him.

Success in love isn't about looks, it's about attitude.

Live by your own rules Move to your rhythm, instead of dancing to the beat of someone else’s drum Decide how you want to be treated Choose what you will or will not tolerate Leave if you don’t get what you want.

The most attractive quality of all is dignity.

she lets him see how afraid she is to be without him and he soon comes to feel as though he has a 100 percent hold on her. This is often the point when women begin to complain: “He doesn’t make enough time for me. He isn’t as romantic as he used to be.

A dreamgirl, on the other hand, won't kill herself to impress anyone.

If she is clearly right, find fault with her that has nothing to do with the incident, and use that.

When a man likes you, he will be interested in finding out what you like. If he makes you happy, he feels more secure. Everything men do is intended to impress women.

Many people lack the basic equipment to be in a relationship and there's nothing you can do to change it. You can't take a skunk and dip it in perfume and hope it becomes a puppy. Eventually, the perfume will wear off and you'll still have a skunk on your hands.

If you can't convince 'em, confuse 'em.

The more independent you are of him, the more interested he will be.

Expressing yourself when he takes for granted doesn't work.

Be an independent thinker at all times, and ignore anyone who attempts to define you in a limiting way.

When you meet someone who is truly great, he makes you believe you can be great, too. This is the kind of relationship you want, and it's the only kind of relationship worth having.

That's the big picture, your happiness. And health. You should never care what a man thinks of you -- until he demonstrates to you that he cares about making you happy. If he isn't trying to make you happy, then send him back from "whence" he came because winning him over will have no benefit. At the end of the day, happines, joy...and yes...your emotional stability...those comprise the only measuring stick you really need to have.

Men control the world, but women control the men.

When you are happy, you are sexy

Relationship Principle 9 Every guy knows he can find a girl who is simply satisfied with satisfying him. They are much more turned on by a woman who cares about her own pleasure as well.

Truly powerful people don't explain why they want respect. They simply don't engage someone who doesn't give it to them.

UncondiTional love is a beauTiful Thing. JusT be sure To give iT after your conditions have been meT :P

Relationship Principle 1 In romance, there's nothing more attractive to a man than a woman who has dignity and pride in who she is.

Anytime a woman competes with another woman she demeans herself.