Public behavior is merely private character writ large.
Consequences are governed by principles, and behavior is governed by values; therefore, value principles!
While values drive behaviors, principles govern consequences.
Values determine behavior; Principles determine the consequences of behavior.
Distinguish between the person and the behavior or performance.
Sometimes poor behavior is simply bad execution of good intent.
Until we take how we see ourselves (and how we see others) into account, we will be unable to understand how others see and feel about themselves and their world. Unaware, we will project our intentions on their behavior and call ourselves objective.