The message of "The Winner Takes It All" is straightforward: It argues that the concept of relationships ending on mutual terms is an emotional fallacy. One person is inevitably okay and the other is inevitably devastated.
Mostly, we argued about who which of us was better at arguing, and particularly about who had won the previous argument.
When I think about the future, I'm not necessarily arguing it's going to be better or worse. I'm just saying it's going to be different.