I was raised in that generation where it was all 'Women can have it all!' and I don't think you can. I think something falls off the table. The good thing is that the things that stay on the table become so much more important.
I'm such a profound believer that timing is everything; I would tattoo that on my arm.
It's never too late. Don't focus on what was taken away. Find something to replace it, and acknowledge the blessing you have.
I decided very early on that it took too much of my energy to pretend to be someone else. People will make up their minds about me whatever I do or say, but at least I know I am being true to myself.
The low points I had all helped make up my character, so I probably wouldn't want to do away with them because I like being flawed and I like having them help me grow and change and become better and stronger.
A thank-you can be just as meaningful as a soulful ten-page message.
You can't live your life blaming your failures on your parents and what they did or didn't do for you. You're dealt the cards that you're dealt. I realised it was a waste of time to be angry at my parents and feel sorry for myself.
A fish may love a bird, but where would they live?
When I lay my head on the pillow at night I can say I was a decent person today. That's when I feel beautiful.
If you're going to go through hell... I suggest you come back learning something.