I've had two children. I've had three boyfriends. I've had a lot of things happen that can change your opinions and values and philosophies.
I really enjoy being the child's 'welcoming committee' and to help someone usher his or her spirit into the world in a very peaceful way is very effortless to me.
All of my children are the same way I am. They're little artists too, in their own ways.
No one chooses to raise children alone.