You may very well fall in love with somebody who makes less money, who's younger than you, who weighs less than you.
If you love your work, I'm not sure you have hobbies. I try to say no to things that other people could do and only say yes to things that only I could do.
Romance is a means to the end of self-completion, but love is an end in itself.
Some women and men seem to need each other.
Being able to support oneself allows one to choose a marriage out of love and not just economic dependence. It also allows one to risk that marriage.
A woman without a man is like a fish without a bicycle.
If you are not a feminist in love, you fail to recognise someone who does not love you. Feminism makes love easier. Otherwise, there is the danger of feeling romantically drawn to someone who does not see you as an equal.
You can compel fear. You can even make someone feel they're in love if they're isolated and dependent for long enough. But laughter is free.
How could you not love Norman Mailer? He was a total chauvinist, but also so vulnerable.