It wasn't that I ever knew I'd be at the Met for 20 years, or 30 years, or 40 years, or anything like that
And, over the last thirty years we have seen men's participation in both housework and childcare has increased and women's have stayed at about the same.
My 40th year will be '10-11 and we will have another two years to go to complete the new Ring, and I committed to Peter that I would stay that long in any case.