Your children are grown and your career has slowed down - all the stuff that took up so much attention is gone, and you're left with expansive time and space. You have to reimagine who you are and what life is about.
I want to live my life with no goals anymore, but just completely free, like I did when I was younger.
Acceptance and tolerance and forgiveness, those are life-altering lessons.
When you learn not to want things so badly, life comes to you.