There's nothing wrong at all with women wanting to be women.
Guys don't really don't wanna hear if it's really smart, and women feel uncomfortable if you reveal stuff they're going to have to remember they did themselves.
I would argue that the uncomfortable feelings she elicits are simply the by-product of watching a woman wanting and taking like a man.
That (the '90s) was a breakout time for women that was special and different, ... Now, if you're soft and sweet you can do well. We've kind of lost that sense of a strong, outspoken woman.