I don't care if you're a man, if you're a player: If God sends you that one and your heart is in it, you'll work it out.
So much could go wrong on a date. What if he turns out to be a jerk? [You need] A back-up plan, just in case he doesn't work out, you can move on to the back-up plan.
I just like when I work with people that are professional and good.