Love is the ability to discover similarities in the dis-similar. The audience has a right not to be fooled - even if it insists on being fooled.
In myths the warrant of grace was the acceptance of sacrifice; it is this acceptance that love, the re-enactment of sacrifice, beseeches if it is not to feel under a curse.
Love you will find only where you may show yourself weak without provoking strength.
Love is the power to see similarity in the dissimilar.
There is no love that is not an echo.