I find a lot of poetry very disappointing, but I do have poets that I go back to. One book of poetry that I'd like to mention is 'The Exchange' by Sophie Cabot Black. Her poems are difficult without being too difficult.
The public is probably more suspicious of poets than women, and maybe for good reason.
The poets who have written the best poems about war seem to be the poets whose countries have experienced an invasion or vicious dictatorships.