To say something nice about themselves, this is the hardest thing in the world for people to do.
To say something nice about yourself, this is the hardest thing in the world for people to do. They'd rather take their clothes off.
I think the thing I miss most in our age is our manners. It sounds so old-fashioned in a way. But even bad people had good manners in the old days, and manners hold a community together, and manners hold a family together; in a way, they hold the world together.