Too often, we fall into the trap of thinking 'equal' means 'the same' and that we achieve equality by treating everyone identically.
We often hear that people mean well: that so many just don't how to interact with people with disabilities. They're unsure of the 'right' reaction, so they default to condescension that makes them feel better in the face of their discomfort.
In many ways, I'm incredibly lucky to have been born with my impairment and that it's visible. It means my path has been predictable.