Once you have all those emotional aspects in line and you're in sync with the other person, then you find out what it really is and how great it can be, ... putting the cart before the horse, and you can probably make a pun out of that, as well.
It was a lot like Second City in the sense that there was a great freedom to fail there.
The best food is in Chicago. There are great restaurants everywhere, from fancy places to burger joints.